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07/15/2008
Hoppy Kercheval
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Hoppy's Commentary For Tuesday
Ta.lkline Host Hoppy Kercheval

Jamie Lynn Spears couldn't be happier.

The 17-year-old actress/singer and younger sister of Britney Spears tells reporters that spending time with her new baby girl is "so much fun." 

"I love taking care of her," Spears gushed.  "I just want to hug and kiss her, and I'm happy all the time."

Spears' postpartum high is also evident in her picture on the cover of US Magazine.  She smiles, as baby Maddie sleeps in her arms.

OK, they're both adorable and it's a sweet picture, but something is wrong here. The pendulum of cultural acceptance of teen pregnancy has swung too far the other way.

It wasn't that long ago that an unwed teen mother, like Spears, brought shame upon her family. Some of those girls resorted to back alley abortions while others were shipped off by their parents to have the baby, which was then put up for adoption.

No, those were not the "good old days," but there's also something fundamentally wrong about the new culture that glamorizes and celebrates teen pregnancy. 

Spears' charmed life is the exception, not the rule.  Statistics consistently reveal a whole host of social and economic problems associated with children born to unwed teenage mothers.  

The young mothers are less likely to finish school, more likely to have trouble establishing a career and more likely to end up on government assistance than teenagers who don't have babies.

Also, the children of unwed teenage mothers are themselves more likely to have children out of wedlock.

In short, a teenager having a child out of wedlock creates all sorts of problems. 

But that's not the message the popular culture is sending these days, and the US Magazine cover story and the subsequent media attention are all examples of the glorification of teen birth. 

Sarah Brown of The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy notes, "Hundreds of thousands of teens and unmarried young adults get pregnant and become parents every single year and very few of them have Hollywood beginnings or endings."

In fact, according to the Guttmacher Institute, each year almost 750,000 women aged 15-19 become pregnant and 82 percent of those are unplanned.

That means the father is even less likely to become involved in the child's life. 

Meanwhile, the teen birth rate, which had been dropping consistently, rose 3 percent in 2006.  It wouldn't be fair to say that glamorizing teen pregnancy has contributed to that rise, but the portrayals of young, unwed mothers have sent a message that getting pregnant can make you the center of attention.

Of course, no one holds the attention span of others forever.  The novelty wears off and reality settles in.  Experienced parents will tell you that caring for and nurturing a child is one of the greatest challenges in life. 

Somewhere there has to be a happy cultural medium between treating pregnant teens like The Scarlet Letter's Hester Prynn and celebrating them with magazine covers. 

 

 


User Comments
not a lot of responses, because many people....MANY...have a loved one in the situation. Silly gals., with the hope of a cool million will happily go through this...but MOST young gals...are mortified, lonely, scared, and browbeaten. Don't go there..my friend...tooo many emotions.

Though, you might mention the OTHER HALF OF THE PROBLEM!!!
with all of the above commentary not a mention of the father and his responsibility in this anywhere! i have three sons all of whom were taught from a very early age about sex, protection and the consquences of getting a girl pregnant. if they did get a girl pregnant we would of course not ostracize or treat her with disrespect. we would help her with whatever decision she chose (i am pro-choice for a variety of reasons)not the least of which would be because my oldest son is a product of my own unplanned teen pregnancy. education and responsiblity for one's actions should include BOTH sexes. many of the girls who get pregnant do so with MEN not boys. men who should know better and should by rights be prosecuted but generally aren't. I have met both types of anti abortion proponents that kensgirl and Captain Q are referencing but my major concern is that the daddy usually gets out of the responsibilty of taking care of the baby literally and figuratively. until both boys and girls are made to be responsible for the consquences for the most part boys will be boys and girls will be gullible.
Hoppy,

I have two daughters, seven and three years old and I am scared to death for their future. It is difficult to find modest clothing for girls this young, and it gets worse as they get older. I agree pregnant teenagers should not be condemned, but it definitely doesn't need to be encouraged.
You might want to watch that broad brush you're painting with there, CaptainQ. The leaders of the pro-life movement in my county have taken in and/or adopted 4 or 5 children who were the result of teenage pregnancies, and in some cases have taken in the mother as well. They struggle to provide for them, but they do anything and everything they can to support the women and their offspring after they have chosen life. I'm sure that they are NOT alone in their approach to the Pro-Life cause. I am pro-life and know a lot of pro-life people, and I'm not aware of anyone under the age of 75 or so with the "Hester Prynne" approach anymore.
Hoppy, The statistics speak for themselves as far as the negative social impacts on teen mothers and their babies. We shouldn't shame these mothers though. Once the teen mother is pregnant we must as a society embrace her and the baby. If we want to tackle the issue then we need to improve our sex education courses in schools and in the home before the teen is having sex. Until we pull our head out of the sand and place a real emphasis on education then the problems outlined in the article will continue.
Hoppy, this issue really hits home for me. Although I agree with you that teenage/unwed pregnancy shouldn't be glamorized, at the same time, we as a society shouldn't be so condemning when it does happen. I think back to the incident a decade ago near Beverly WV when a distraught teen who discovered she was pregnant was rejected by the baby's "father" and too scared to tell her own parents, took a shotgun to her head and killed herself. That took place just a few blocks away from where I was living at the time and it shook up the entire community. Contrast that with what happened a few months ago where I live now. A preacher's daughter got pregnant, but instead of the church, friends and parents rejecting her, they all embraced her with love. With a lot of help from friends and neighbors, this young lady's going to finish high school and still take care of her child. I agree that teen pregnancy should be discouraged with education, but at the same time, the days of the "Scarlet Letter" must end. It's amazing how many WV "Pro-Life" people also feel that unwed mothers should be kicked out of society.
You're right on the money as usual, Hoppy. The percentage of babies from unwed teenage mothers being raised by their grandparents is staggering - particularly in the inner cities, leaving the girls freed up to go get knocked up again (and in some cases again and again!) That's pretty much what we get for creating a society with NO consequences.
I agree with your assessment of the state of our culture, Hoppy; I discus with my teenage and adult children as to what is going to be permissible in the future with their kids. Decorum, good taste, manners....all out the window with ethics.

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